On your 16th birthday, you had a very radical short haircut and sent your hair to the Little Princess Trust, a charity that makes wigs for children with hair loss.  We stopped off on the way and got a helium balloon, and when we arrived you looked fab with your new haircur.  You were struggling a lot during that summer, in the Highfield Unit, but we managed too have a nice day, and had a picnic and some time in the garden together.  It was hard to go home that evening and leave you in Oxford.