When we first moved to Tollington Place and you and K used to walk to Hornsey school together every morning, I remember you telling me years later that you often used leave extra early and stop in Wray Crescent Park on your way and have a swing.  Home was pretty stressful at that point, with us struggling to look after Nan, and it must have been lovely for you and K to get out of the house and have a peaceful swing and a chat before school.  You are never to old to swing!